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It’s important to keep in mind that everyone experiences feelings of anxiety at times, and that anxiety is just one of a range of feelings that are part of the experience of being human.

However, some people have particular problems or difficulties relating to anxious feelings and that is the subject of this page. Anxiety problems can be short-term, perhaps focused on a particular event, like an exam, or longer term, with raised anxiety levels lasting for years. Anxiety may arise only in relation to a particular type of situation, such as flying or when encountering a spider, or may arise in a variety of social situations, alternatively, anxiety can also be more generalised.

There are a range of symptoms which may be associated with anxiety (many of which might also be related to other causes), these include:

Excessive worry about a number of different events or activities
Difficulty controlling the worry
Poor concentration
Inability to relax
Memory difficulties
Difficulty in making decisions
Mood swings
Feeling unreal
Dry mouth
Muscular tension
Frequent urination

Why do we feel anxious?

First, it’s helpful to think of the response 'systems’ the brain has, at least in a simplified way (based on the work of Jaak Panksepp and Paul Gilbert, amongst others, if you want to explore this further).

Consider the following three systems:

Motivation; a system mostly involving positive emotions, which drive us to do things which then activate the brain's dopamine circuitry, giving us feelings of achievement and pleasure.

Affiliation/Soothing; which allows us to feel calm, safe, relaxed, and contented, feeling connected to others and caring/cared for. This system is particularly connected with endorphins and the neurohormone oxytocin.

Threat; which leads to the well-known fight or flight (and freeze) response. The main hormones connected with this system are adrenalin and cortisol, and the emotions include feelings of anxiety, anger and disgust. Although these emotions are often experienced as negative, the system itself has evolved to protect us. It's there to help us survive immediate threats, most obviously by giving us the physical resources we need to fight or run.

These systems all interconnect, for example, if we are prevented from fulfilling a goal driven by the motivational system, the threat system may be engaged, and we might feel angry. Ideally, these three systems would be in balance over any period of time, each engaging when needed, but none dominating. Paul Gilbert argues that our society tends to overwork the Motivation and Threat systems, and the Soothing/Affiliation system can get out of balance. Certainly, we don’t usually face the kinds of threats that our ancestors faced during evolution, however we experience our world through the interactions of the same brain systems, so difficulties at work, or in relationships (for example) can trigger threat responses, which may be experienced as anxiety. In effect, our social structures have evolved far faster than our physiology; we still have hunter-gatherer brains, living in very different environments. For example, our ancestors lived in relatively small social groups, where every encounter would be with someone they knew. A disagreement could result in their social status being damaged, which might effect the amount of food or protection they could get. Today, living in a city, we encounter many strangers. Perhaps one is rude to us, and we come away from the encounter feeling anxious or angry, and can't seem to let go of it, we keep thinking about what we should've said or done. In reality, the encounter was probably trivial, with no threat to our social status, yet our mind processes this as a serious threat and prioritises it; the threat system is engaged.

Whether or not anxiety becomes a problem for someone is down to many different factors, which may be a combination of biological, psychological or social factors. Also, someone could experience anxiety as a problem even if their symptoms did not fit into a particular diagnostic category.

How can Hypnosis help?

In fact, it can help in several ways. Firstly, as a straightforward relaxation technique, the state of relaxation, calmness, safety and contentment is oppositional to the aroused 'fight or flight' state of anxiety: The two cannot exist at the same time. Even a brief period of hypnosis can ‘reset’ the mind/body state from anxious to relaxed, and the hormonal balance will adjust accordingly. This is a very good starting point when it comes to bringing the three systems into balance, even if it’s not a long-term solution. But it is a good starting point from which to do further therapy work; you’re working from within the state you want to achieve. Additionally, self-hypnosis can be taught and used when needed, to produce the same deep relaxation and calmness. Also bear in mind that our thoughts and feelings are usually in sync. If we're feeling anxious, we're likely to have anxious thoughts, and if we have anxious thoughts, we're likely to feel anxious. Thus being able to switch into a relaxed, calm state can also alter the pattern of thoughts that are present.

Secondly, hypnosis is really helpful in psychotherapy as a way of ‘getting the message where it’s needed’. Consider this: You may have felt anxious/angry/sad and told yourself 'this is silly, I’ve got no reason to feel this way, I just need to get a grip…’. But how often does this work? It’s very difficult for those logical, rational areas of the brain (largely located in the outer hemispheres) to get through to the more emotional regions, (deep within the brain). Put simply, hypnosis seems to facilitate this process, which is why it’s often so helpful in modifying habitual behavioural problems. (For more about Hypnosis, please see my page on the subject.)

Finally, hypnosis can be combined with psychotherapy, especially with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), as pioneered by Assen Alladin in his formulation of Cognitive-Hypnotherapy (CHT). This offers an integration of both approaches which can be tailored to suit each the needs and preferences of each client. CBT can be very effective in working with anxiety as it directly tackles the thoughts (cognitions) that can drive anxious feelings, introducing hypnosis can help in a number of ways (as demonstrated by Aladdin's research). In particular, it can be really helpful for those clients who 'don't get along' with CBT.

Please note that, as with any talking therapy, results may vary from person to person.

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Background information on Anxiety disorders:

A doctor or psychiatrist may diagnose a particular condition relating to anxiety symptoms, depending upon the types of symptoms, their causes, and how long they’ve been present. Typically a diagnosis would be within one of the following anxiety related conditions:

Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

Panic Disorder


Social Anxiety Disorder

Obsessieve Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Some links that might be helpful:

Anxiety UK - hypnotherapy information.
Anxiety UK Approved Therapist logo

I'm an Anxiety UK Approved Therapist providing therapeutic support to the charity’s members and partner beneficiaries, (as a hypnotherapist). I am subject to Anxiety UK’s regular monitoring of my professional qualifications, supervision, continual professional development, insurance and professional body membership in addition to complying with the ethical framework and professional standards set down by my registered governing body.

Full details of the Anxiety UK Approved Therapist scheme can be found here.

Details about becoming a member of Anxiety UK to be able to access therapy via the charity can be found here.

NHS page on Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD) in adults

Mind - Anxiety and panic attacks